If you had worked with me over the last ten years or so, you would know that I absolutely love casual days, or dress down Fridays! Almost every Friday/ casual day I could be heard telling someone, or everyone, how good it felt and how much I wished we could just wear jeans and t-shirts every day!
Some people said that I would get tired of it, and I gave that some thought. I have now been eighteen months out of the classroom, and I can tell you that it didn’t get old! There are many things about having and dealing with cancer which are pretty awful!
One of the really annoying things is a whole new thought process when you have any aches, pains etc. Pre-cancer, if I woke up with a sore back I wondered if I had slept in some strange position. Now, while I know it could be the same, I wonder if it is a sign of cancer spreading or some new side-effect from medications. I have heard many of my fellow cancer patients comment about this as well. Trying to figure out what you need to tell the doctor and what is just everyday stuff. If you feel like you are getting a cold, or you cut yourself, you worry that you may get an infection.
For people with non-metastatic cancer, I have heard that this goes away after a while after being declared cancer free. I’m not sure if the fear that it will return ever truly goes away. It is important to have good things going on in your life, like time with friends and hobbies. Things that will take your mind off the negative side of things.
Wonder what I’m wearing today? Jeans and a t-shirt of course! Today I have my “dressy” black jeans on and a sweater over the t-shirt. That’s right, here I am living the dream!
I had a dentist appointment last week to have a molar filled. I have always had some anxiety about dentist visits. I would have thought, however, that after going through surgery, chemo, and radiation, I would have no problem with the dentist. WRONG!
It sounds stupid, but there I was having to do breathing techniques and distract myself to stay still…not flee the chair. On the way back down to the car my legs felt wobbly. Maybe long time anxiety trumps the unknown?
A year ago on Groundhog Day I had completed 3 chemo treatments and was expecting my next in 5 days. I was writing about things like hair loss and night sweats. Lots has happened since then and I am through with most of that.
I have been off treatment and away from home for a month now and when I get back on Monday I have a week of tests and appointments.The only day without a test or appointment is Tuesday and by the end of the week I expect I will be set to start my next round of oral chemo and will know if there is any sign of active cancer in my system at the moment.
In some ways I feel like the groundhog today. While it is entirely possible that I get good news, a big part of me wants to retreat into my nice warm hole rather than risk finding something scary when I peek out into the sun.
Hi all, I think it is time to update you on my progress. As you know, I have finished with chemo, surgery, and radiation. On Tuesday I began to take two new medications; Letrozole and Ibrance (Palbociclib).
Letrozole is a medication to take every day which works to reduce the amount of Estrogen in my system. Estrogen encourages the growth of cancer cells, so less estrogen is a good thing.
Ibrance (Palbociclib) is a medication to take every day for three weeks, and then take a week off. This one aims to keep certain cancer cells from dividing. It is a newer drug than Letrozole and is still being studied. Approved for sale and use for specific purposes, the company has been asked to do further study to show what the drug actually does. I am a part of that trial.
Overall, the goal is to keep any stray cancer cells from developing further. There is a whole list of possible side effects for both drugs, but so far (3 days) I am not noticing anything.
For more information on Letrozole check out Letrozole by Teva
For more information on Ibrance check out About Ibrance
Rites of passage of some kind exist in most societies and the cancer community is no different. Some of these are more pleasant than others.
- Hair loss
- First MRI
- First CT scan
- First chemo
- First time saying, “I have cancer.”
Better ones are:
- Last chemo treatment
- Final radiation treatment
- News of remission
On my last day of radiation on my rib the radiation therapists offered to take some pictures which would have gone nicely with some of my posts.
First is this picture of me holding an unmoulded body mould so you can see what I was talking about. In the original post I just used a picture of the ones they had stored on a rack.
Next is a picture of my mould which I layed in for 5 treatments.
Next is one of me and the machine for the stereotactic treatments on my rib. I hate the pic of me, but check out the machine.
Did you notice the cool ceiling? Each room had one; one spring, one summer, and this one for fall.
This past Sunday I preached at my home church. When I volunteered to do it two weeks ago, it seemed like a good idea. I had not considered the impact post-radiation issues would have on my ability to focus on study and writing or what would be involved I preparing for the service itself.
What people didn’t see at church was the seeping mess I had to clean off my underarm area before I could even consider getting dressed, or the hassle of coming up with a top to wear that was appropriate and was least likely to show seepage or staining that I knew would be continuing throughout the service. There was cream to apply to the non-open areas when the burning is making the skin hot and super dry as well as medicated cream for the open area. In order to wear a top at all the last area needed to be covered with a non-adherent dressing. There was no way to secure this as the skin around was also damaged. This along with Advil and Tylenol and I was ready to go.
After service it is traditional for the person who preached to stand at the back of the church to meet and chat with those in attendance. I love this part of the morning! What I hadn’t thought of, and hopefully people didn’t notice was that a nice firm handshake turned out to be quite painful.
As of today it has been a week since I finished radiation which sounds like a week past the struggle, but that is far from the truth! By Saturday I was at my wits end as to what was the best thing to do for wound care. Was it better to leave it open to the air (which meant no clothing and my arm up in the air like a wing or something) or should I try to find a way of covering it, and with what? Tom and I have been to almost every pharmacy in Fredericton trying to find the items that had been suggested to us for skin care. Most places didn’t have what we needed, some didn’t even know what we were talking about. How did the hospital think I was supposed to do this on my own?
On Monday Inlucked out and got in to see my family doctor and she immediately set me up with an appointment with a wound care nurse. When I finally got in to see her yesterday she explained that the reason for the level of pain where my skin has broken open is that it exposed the layer with all the nerve endings. Rah!
I showed her the directions I had been given and she was surprised at what they thought people could handle on their own. Then she cleaned it up and put a dressing on it that is pretty similar to what I had for the mastectomy. It needed to be so large to keep the whole area away from friction as well as having healthy skin on which to anchor it. The relief from this was awesome! Not only that, but the relief from the pressure to go it alone was significant. The dressings can stay on up to three days and I can go to the clinic for changes. I am not looking forward to the tape removal, she warned me to take stronger pain mess for that, but overall things ar better.
Some other things people in my cancer circles have mentioned that people don’t see include;
- the amount of energy they expend to get out
- the fact that, while they may seem perky for the duration of an event, it may be the only time they are active for the whole day
- some people feel their illness is somehow dismissed when people say how good they look (I haven’t minded this at all so far, keep the compliments coming)
- the level of their fatigue
I have put links to two pictures below. I didn’t put them in the post itself because you may not want to see
The first is of my skin before I went for help, it had progressed. https://www.flickr.com/gp/70909221@N02/zj56Vr
The bandaging from the wound clinic. https://www.flickr.com/gp/70909221@N02/4E002P
Today I will have my last radiation treatment on my chest area and I will ring the bell to celebrate finishing 25 treatments.
Up until last week the treatment was pretty easy to handle. There has been no immediate discomfort from being ‘zapped,” but rather a cumulative effect of a worsening sunburn. Last week though the skin under my arm broke open. It is both more painful and a but gross. While there will be no more radiation, apparently the damage will continue to progress for around a week.
That being said, today is indeed a time for celebrating!
If you remember, I earlier wrote about my marking appointment for breast radiation when I thought a body mould was going to be made and it turned out that they just used a support frame with measured placements for consistent positioning.
Last week I had an appointment for marking for radiation on my rib. Gone was the frame, and instead the bed was covered by a sort of cushion with a nylon cover. It was a bit like a semi-stuffed bean bag. Once they had me in the position they needed they sucked the air out of the bag and it gathered more closely around me and became rigid. It is now a mould of my body which I will lie in for treatments.
The best part of this is that when my treatments are over, they will let air back in, clean the surfaces, and hang it up to wait for the next patient. Brilliant, reusing the mould rather than breaking it!